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I decided today that I am afraid of growing old. Growing old terrifies me. The idea that someday I will be forced to move at a glacial pace is utterly horrifying. I will be removed from my job and in time, my life.
I will lose fine motor control, one day it's the ability to paint my nails... the next I'll need a nurse to do up my buttons and zips. I'll be a burden on all those around me. I will forget people and mistaken memories and take my old-fashioned ideals and, in an effort to help, I will effectively ram them down the young people's throats. My limbs will shake and my hair will grey. My skin will wrinkle and my breasts, as small as they are will sag. I will be old.
I know it doesn't happen overnight, I know that the transformation will be slow... but still, it will happen. One way or another I will grow old.
What if I fall in love? The man I love wwill grow old as well. One day we are cutesy and passionate and then comes the awkward transitional phase spent dying our hair and wearing young clothes... and then, in a blink of an eye, we will reluctantly come to terms with our age as our grandchildren make nurses come take care of us. One minute we are holding hands and dancing in the moonlight... then we are installing a lift in our home or moving to a bungalow because it is sensible for us... and the next... one of us will be gone.
One of us will be gone. I pray it will be me. I wouldn't be able to cope with knowing that he is dead, that he abandoned me. He would have left me to keep aging, keep wrinkling, keep decaying, the nerve endings shrinking and shriveling... leaving me alone to slowly return to dust while I am still alive.
Does this make me selfish? I know it does! In an ideal world we would die together, before our bodies stop responding to simple commands, before we eat more pills than solid food, before we have specialists in every division of the local hospital, before our hips are more plastic than bone. I realize that dying early would be tragic but I think that growing old would be the worst fate possible. I think that age is best left for those who are brave and those who are heroes in their own right. I am a coward.
I think that age defines us. Age defines us despite not knowing us. Age is the only thing that we all seem to share. Age doesn't look at your economic standings nor your educational background... it just takes you... everyone, some sooner than others. Then you die. Simple as that.
I will lose fine motor control, one day it's the ability to paint my nails... the next I'll need a nurse to do up my buttons and zips. I'll be a burden on all those around me. I will forget people and mistaken memories and take my old-fashioned ideals and, in an effort to help, I will effectively ram them down the young people's throats. My limbs will shake and my hair will grey. My skin will wrinkle and my breasts, as small as they are will sag. I will be old.
I know it doesn't happen overnight, I know that the transformation will be slow... but still, it will happen. One way or another I will grow old.
What if I fall in love? The man I love wwill grow old as well. One day we are cutesy and passionate and then comes the awkward transitional phase spent dying our hair and wearing young clothes... and then, in a blink of an eye, we will reluctantly come to terms with our age as our grandchildren make nurses come take care of us. One minute we are holding hands and dancing in the moonlight... then we are installing a lift in our home or moving to a bungalow because it is sensible for us... and the next... one of us will be gone.
One of us will be gone. I pray it will be me. I wouldn't be able to cope with knowing that he is dead, that he abandoned me. He would have left me to keep aging, keep wrinkling, keep decaying, the nerve endings shrinking and shriveling... leaving me alone to slowly return to dust while I am still alive.
Does this make me selfish? I know it does! In an ideal world we would die together, before our bodies stop responding to simple commands, before we eat more pills than solid food, before we have specialists in every division of the local hospital, before our hips are more plastic than bone. I realize that dying early would be tragic but I think that growing old would be the worst fate possible. I think that age is best left for those who are brave and those who are heroes in their own right. I am a coward.
I think that age defines us. Age defines us despite not knowing us. Age is the only thing that we all seem to share. Age doesn't look at your economic standings nor your educational background... it just takes you... everyone, some sooner than others. Then you die. Simple as that.
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nothing good happens drunk
I swayed into the kitchen. I might still be drunk, I thought sourly.
Awkwardly bending my knees, I scanned the bottom shelf of the fridge. What should you eat for a hangover? I recalled some article from Pinterest and grabbed the almost empty container of yogurt.
I found a pack of pecans and tossed some into a tiny sandwich bag. I proceeded to crush the nuts with the blunt end of a vodka bottle. Crushed pecan nuts will absorb the alcohol in my stomach, right? I thought back to my drunken stupor at the bar and cringed.
The door swung open and she walked to the sink, water bottle in hand. “I feel like complete shit,” I said. She
Literature
Metaphysical Pain
Chest pain
Heart pain
Mind pain
Head pain
Two are very physical...
The others, weeellll, they can be too.
It's a suffering that comes from
Not knowing what to do.
It's a suffering that comes from
Wondering what is true.
It's a pain that breaks the body,
Breaks the spirit,
Breaks the soul.
It's a pain that leaves one broken,
Hollow, empty,
Less than whole.
It's an aching pain
That leaves one longing,
Longing for relief.
It's a stabbing pain
That leaves one hoping,
Hoping in belief.
Belief that maybe, somehow,
This pain can soon be healed.
But it depends upon the bridges,
Or the walls, inside, we build.
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You behind the bar
You behind the bar
With the sharp-toothed grin
Of a shark approaching his prey
You with your honesty
"Not her, not her, not her,
Not you, obviously." And yet
You with easy confidence
And compliments to spare
For shy long-haired girls like me
You behind the bar
Mixing the perfect drink
And the signals that you send
You with your honesty
Trying to win my heart
With half-truths and maybe-lies
You with easy confidence
You know your game so well
But so do I, and I won't play
You behind the bar
Asking me to stay a while
I'll stay but not tonight
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I wrote this earlier this year (or late last year). My grandmothers are both dying... and my great grandmother has alzheimer's... growing old sucks.
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So live every day as if it were your birthday and don't reflect too deeply on the inevitable decay of life.